The Fight Continues
My man on the scene (Jamie) is now back home in the U.S., so I had to call in to Barry and Pam to get the report. Barry is out of the hospital now and as I mentioned earlier, they will be staying in Halifax for the next few days.
Here's the word from the surgeon: it was a primary brain cell tumor, which is serious. Barry says the statistics aren't rosy, but it is beatable. And Jamie says that someone as stubborn as his dad is the guy to do it. The next step is a 15-week course of radiotherapy and chemotherapy. I don't know exactly when that will begin, but Barry is gearing up for the fight.
Barry asked me to again thank all of you for checking in on him. He and Pam really appreciate your notes and comments.
Here's the word from the surgeon: it was a primary brain cell tumor, which is serious. Barry says the statistics aren't rosy, but it is beatable. And Jamie says that someone as stubborn as his dad is the guy to do it. The next step is a 15-week course of radiotherapy and chemotherapy. I don't know exactly when that will begin, but Barry is gearing up for the fight.
Barry asked me to again thank all of you for checking in on him. He and Pam really appreciate your notes and comments.
posted by Beth at 3:48 PM
26 Comments:
Hi Barry
It was great to hear your voice on speaker phone in OR 1 on Tues.
The OR girls ,Reg and Brent are all sending positive thoughts your way.Can't wait to hear your stories!
The Chandlers and everyone in Stratford and on this side of the Hillsborough River are on your team!!
Keep up the good work!!
hey guys it's Derek Power just wanted to say my thoughts and prayers r with you keep up the fight Barry i know u can beat this take care
Dr.Ling
Since we found out about your illness we have been thinking & praying for you every day. This blog is great as we can follow your real progress as appossed to rumours. We will continue to pray for you each day, we will wait until you get home to send a card & flowers. God Bless,
Mike & Sharon Savidant
Hi Barry & Pam
Just checked in for an update on you again (silly old bastard!!) If anyone can beat this I know you can! Can't wait to hear all the stories when you get back home! Oh my gauze they will be good for a laugh or 2 I am sure.
Take care.
The person who is calling me a silly old bastard is a very dear friend from the OR. It all started when I dropped something in the OR and I referred to myself as that.
Pam and I are doing well considering all .This all has been way harder on her than me.
Please keep in touch. It helps both of us.
Love,
Barry
Hi Barry&Pam.
I had a great chat with Sheila and Freddy today I was so happy to see her and give her a hug...for you!I did hear the fart story Barry you are to much!!!You are the talk of the QEH everyone misses and loves you..must be the happiness you spread..even in Mammography!!!
Hugs and Kisses to all
Norah&Kevin
I had the opportunity to play only a few holes with you this summer, but your conversation about buying a golf game gave me great hope.
Among the many members of Belvedere, and the many family members for whom you have eased some pain and replaced the spring in their step, I add to the list my best wishes.
Barry,
On behalf of the medical staff of Prince County Hospital in Summerside, we want to extend our best wishes to you and your family during this very challenging time. We know that you're a fighter, and we're rooting for you 100%
Peter MacKean
Chief of Staff
Prince County Hospital
PS During the 1991 Canada Games preparation, I've never forgotten your response to my question re how to best stop a massive neck hemorrhage(from a skate blade):
"Just use the neck tourniquet!"
Hi Barry
After that in depth chat we had at the CDP on Saturday 2weeks ago about joint injections,I could not believe what I was hearing about you a few days later.
With your strong character and personality, and the help of all your friends, I know that you can beat this humbling disease. When all is well again, maybe you can come down to the track and I will give you some tips on how to make those horses go faster. All The Best. Ian
Hi Barry,
We are so pleased that you are doing so well.Our thoughts and prayers are with you that your treatment will go well and you will have a complete recovery.
Looking forward to seeing you back in your office.
Take care,
Richard and Sharon MacNeill
Hi Barry:
Thinking of you again, and wishing there were 'magic words' to really convey how much you mean to so many, many people!
None of us can actually walk this road with you, but thoughts, prayers, and love, are with you every step. Hoping that in some small way, they will help.
With very best wishes to you, and all your family. Hang in there, and keep that twinkle in your eye!!!
One of your patients.
Barry, Pam, and family
Unbelievable. Your the Man!!
So glad to hear your surgery went well and you are back out in the fresh air.
Have been thinking and praying each day for you and Pam. Your quick wit,upbeat attitude, and the love from your family will get you through this.
Take care of yourself
Kathy ,Kevin, Ben, Sam, and Isaac
Dear Barry and Pam and Jamie and David and Suz and all the rest of you!
We love you lots and are thrilled with how well you physically sailed through this week. The roller coaster will continue. It's a critical part of the ride, believe me. And none of you have to "stay strong", just being there for each other, therein lies the strength! You can win this battle and by the looks of all the love and friendship on this blog, it is a battle well worth fighting. Hang in there guys. We'll get through this together. Lots of love from Mo. xoxoxoxoxo
Barry, I am glad to that you are feeling better. My dad called and felt he had witnessed a miracle. The closest thing he could compare it to was the time he saw the image of the virgin mary on the tim hortons in sydney.
See you soon
Alison Maceachern
Hey Barry,
I guess if there ever was a time to " Suck it up buttercup " this is it. [ Ask Barry the story] Take care. We are all in your corner and missing you. Shelly
Hi Barry and Pam no question if anyone can beat this thing its you Barry Positive thoughts and Love from us to you! Cant wait to see you soon Jack,Marilyn,M.l.Greg Lorie,Sharpie,Allyson.Paul,Jaclie and Girls
hi Barry wishing you a speedy recovery.My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. Take care.
Arlene Peterson
hi dr. ling...glad to hear you are out of the hospital. you have been in my thoughts & prayers...but until they made it possible to sign in as anonymous i couldn't figure how to post you a message!! Look out cerna!! hope to see you back on U1 soon. all the best to you and your family.evangeline
Hi Barry and Pam, Hope you guys are getting some time to re-charge before the next step! Just wanted you to know that we are praying for you both and know in our hearts that this is going to all work out and will be nothing but a bad memory very soon. Keep your chins up and know we love you and miss you.
Looking forward to another awesome Christmas eve visit!
Mary Lynn, Greg and gang
Hi Barry,
Just a quick note to wish you all the best from The Fudges - Wayne and Marie in PEI, Charlie in Halifax and Heather in Florida
Gampie & Pampie
Bates: Gampie gixed (fixed) now, mommy? Gampie all better?
Yes, Bates, Grampie's feeling a little better now... He and Pampie can't wait to see you...they'll be home soon.
Bates: Mercy! (giggles)
Oh baby! (more giggles)
Love, Tugger xoxoxo - touch 5
Barry & Pam... thinking of you every minute of the day.
I'm so proud of you both...you're handling this battle with such grace, strength, courage...and of course, humor.
And, I knew you were popular, but "oh my"!
Big hug and kiss, Love Rachelle
HI BARRY GLAD TO HEAR YOUR OPERATION WAS SUCCESSFUL. WE ARE THINKING AND PRAYING FOR YOU AND KNOW YOU CAN BEAT IT. ALL THE BEST . KAREN AND VINCE
Barry,
Margie and I just want to wish you a speedy recovery. The blog is a great idea and I'm sure it will put a smile on your face every day.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Mark & Margie McLane
Hi Barry and Pam , it's the B.C. connection here.Ijust heard from spook there's a blip on the radar screen out there, someone's been routing around in your brain.Knowing you its probably a scary place to be.Glad to here so far so good, good luck on the rest of the journey.We'll be following you along now with positive vibs thru cyberspace.Looking forward to playing some golf and snooker [did'nt remember you're a fan] with you in the future. Best wishes ; Mark and Mel
Hi Barry & Pam,
Glad to hear things are going well under the circumstances. Dawna and I have been thinking about you both. Remember, we have a tee time with Terry in next years Club Championship.
All The Best,
Doug & Dawna MacDonald
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